October is here, and I realized I still hadn't written my monthly blog article for last month. Usually, ideas come easily. This time was different.
We continue to live with uncertainty. Business moves forward, technology evolves at remarkable speed, and artificial intelligence brings new possibilities and new challenges almost every week. At Luza Tecnologia, we are entering an exciting period with our new website, the introduction of www.kandidatos.com and an important new high visible project with Hyperion.
At the same time, life has reminded me that plans can change quickly. My associate, Rita Cordovil, is recovering from a broken arm, and I recently lost a former colleague and friend far too soon. Experiences like these put things into perspective. Behind every personal action and every business decision are people, each with challenges, hopes and stories of their own.
That brought me back to a subject at the heart of what we are building at Luza: leadership by example.
As managing partner of Luza Tecnologia Portugal, I often think about the responsibility of shaping our culture. Organizations spend considerable time defining values, writing mission statements, and creating culture programs. These things matter, but words alone do not create culture. Behavior does. Culture is shaped by the choices we make every day. It shows in how we treat people under pressure, how we respond when something goes wrong and how we behave when nobody is watching. Leadership loses credibility when we ask others to meet standards, we do not follow ourselves. Once people see a gap between words and actions, trust starts to weaken.
People hear what leaders say, but they believe what leaders consistently do.
Recently, I watched a short video that stayed with me. Tom Cruise noticed a woman sitting alone in a corner who appeared uncomfortable and vulnerable. In the middle of everything happening around him, he paused and asked if she was all right. The details mattered less to me than one simple fact: he noticed. In a busy world, people can easily go unseen. We move from meeting to meeting, answer emails and focus on deadlines, while someone nearby may simply need attention, encouragement or support. That moment reminded me that leadership starts with paying attention. Notice when someone is struggling. Recognize when a colleague has become unusually quiet. Appreciate effort that often goes unseen. Ask a genuine question, then take the time to listen.
These small actions can have more impact than any formal leadership/cultural program.
At Luza Tecnologia, this is the standard I want to set for myself. Whether I am interviewing a future colleague, speaking with a supplier, meeting a customer, having a one-to-one conversation or making a difficult business decision, I want people to feel respected and valued. Not because it is good business practice or improves a metric, but because it is the right thing to do. The same principle matters when people are overlooked, treated unfairly or placed in a vulnerable position. A healthy culture is not built by avoiding difficult conversations. It is built by having them with courage, fairness and humanity.
Respect should never depend on job title, seniority or circumstance. It should be visible in every interaction.
At Luza, we often talk about creating a happy people culture. For me, that is not a slogan. It is a daily commitment. If we want trust, we must act with integrity. If we want openness, we must genuinely listen. If we want people to care for one another, we must show that care ourselves. Culture is not created through occasional grand gestures. It grows through hundreds of small moments, repeated consistently over time.
Every conversation, decision and interaction helps shape the environment we create together.
As October begins, I would like to leave you with a simple year ending challenge: notice someone today. Perhaps it is a colleague whose work rarely receives recognition, a friend who seems quieter than usual, or a family member who deserves more of your attention than your phone. Ask how they are doing. Listen carefully. Help them feel seen, heard and valued. The world could use more of that. At Luza Tecnologia, we believe care should be visible, respect should be non-negotiable and happiness is something we create together. Not through words alone, but through the choices we make every day.
Because leadership does not begin with authority - It begins with paying attention.
by Nelson Tavares da Silva, Managing Partner at Luza